Answering questions is a major part of sex education. Two rules cover the ground. First, always give a truthful answer to a question; secondly, regard sex knowledge as exactly like any other knowledge.
Bertrand Russel
Knowledge of sexuality is of vital importance in the proper development of Sexual Intelligence. The more you know the better, but that knowledge has to come from science and the experiences of others.
The paradox is that we live in the information age, with the advent of the internet into our lives we have access to endless inputs of a sexual nature. However, more often than not, the information is more like misinformation. The sexual messages do not correspond to reality.
It is imperative to get rid of the media hoaxes that lead us to believe that our bodies are impercfects, that everyone else has more and better sex, and that sexual satisfaction comes from having sex on film. It is imperative to make a critical reading of our lifestyles, our values and how we are influenced by the constant bombardment of society.
Sex education should be positive, rigorous, objective and should include biological, psychological and social aspects, understanding sexuality as a human communication source of pleasure and affectivity. Sexual Knowledge, profound and scientific, is essential for the development of Sexual Intelligence. Another way to refer to this element is to call it the Pedagogy of Sexuality as it is acquired through education.
Knowledge gives us the enormous power to transform our lives, frees us to make wise decisions about our sexual and relational lives, and allows us to feel comfortable in our own skin.
THE BODY IMAGE AND THE CANONS OF BEAUTY
The body image and cannons of beauty influence the image we have of ourselves and our self-esteem, it’s essential fo emotional balance.
THE BODY IMAGE WE HAVE OF OURSELVES
The body image is something very complex, affects your relationship with others and consequently your quality of life. Dismorphic Disorder.
THEORY OF SEXUAL ORIENTATION BY KINSEY
Theory of sexual orientation by A.Kinsey, pioneer of human sexuality research, “the father of the sexual revolution
PEGGY LEE’S DISAPPOINTMENT SYNDROME
Peggy Lee’s disappointment syndrome is the feeling experienced by many young women when losing virginity. “Is that all there is?
SEXUALITY IN ADULT AGE
Sexuality in adult age continues to be a taboo. Sexuality is part of the holistic well-being of the person in all stages of his life.
NATURAL CONTRACEPTIVES
METHODS TO REGULATE INFERTILITY Natural contraceptives are the so-called abstinence methods, through which the couple can conceive or prevent the conception of a child. They are based on the recognition
FEMALE AND MALE SEXUAL RESPONSE
Female and male sexual response. What turns on females and males on, timing and the physiological manifestations are different.
PEDOPHILIA VERSUS PEDERASTIA
Pedophilia versus pederastia, both speak of the presence of an illicit link between an adult and a minor without consent.
DESIRE AND SEXUAL FANTASY
Desire and sexual fantasy. Although both belong to the same erotic imaginary, they are different in nature, but can nurture each other.
THE DANGEROUS HETEROSEXUALITY VIRUS
The dangerous heterosexuality virus. The consequences of the model, a set of norms to stigmatise individuals and groups labelled , as “homosexuality”.
LOVE AND ATTRACTION DIFFERENCES
Love and attraction differences. People often misunderstand their attraction for someone as love and vice-versa. Real connections are rare.
THE ATTACHMENT THEORY
The Attachment theory by Mary Ainsworth found individual differences to describe three behaviours of the attachment theory patterns.
FREUD’S VIEW OF DESIRE
FREUD’S VIEW OF DESIRE – Freud conceive the libido as the energy that comes from the instincts and that influences and directs our behaviour.
SEXUALITY DIMENSION
Human sexuality dimension encompasses at least three: biological, psychological, and sociocultural. They influence how we behave sexually.
LIBIDO AND SEXUAL DESIRE
Libido and sexual desire. Mindful sexuality is to be present, % to live the moment as a deep exchange, in emotional and sensorial communion.
SADE AND SEXUAL FREEDOM
Sade and sexual freedom are synonyms today. This controversial French writer and libertine introduced a new concept of sexual pleasure.
WOMEN’S ROLE AND CATHOLIC RELIGION
Women’s role and Catholic Religion, throughout history is a controversial topic. We will see how since prehistoric times, the power of women has been diminished by the influence of the
GENDER VIOLENCE AND CLINICAL SEXOLOGY
Gender violence and clinical sexology. Education at an early age is essential to enjoy sexuality during adolescence and adulthood.
THE PIONEERS IN SEXOLOGY
The pioneers in sexology field, the interdisciplinary scientific study of sex has been an integral component to the study of humanity.
CLINICAL SEXOLOGY AND SEX THERAPY
The clinical sexology and the sex therapy different approaches to be the Best Version of Yourself. Cognitive-Behavioural and Gelstalt.
DESIRE ATTRACTION AND FALLING IN LOVE
Desire, attraction and falling in love and the affective processes that influence sexual behaviours. They all define forms of behaviour and attributions of meaning that are distinct from each other.
“SECRET SEXUAL SELF” AND EROTISM
The “Secret Sexual Self” and erotic and secret stimuli. Sex Therapy aims the holistic well-being of the person.
SOCIETY AND SEXUALITY
Society and sexuality, sex education, both social and institutional, has been based on fears, risks and taboos.
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